Hi I am ur friend talking to u

Are you "friends” with your ex-girlfriend?
Maybe your ex suggested it would be a good idea to
be friends…

…or maybe you think it's "better than nothing” if
the alternative is losing her forever.
WRONG!

Being friends with your ex is actually almost
always a bad idea and a recipe for additional (and
unnecessary) heartache.

That's especially true if you want to get your ex
back, but it's even true if you're ready to move
on and don't want to get back together.

And although the "friend zone” is a terrible place
to be with your ex, so many people fall for this
trap because it's such a tempting idea.

I mean, your ex is giving you an option that
allows you to maintain contact with the person
you've loved for some time and, in theory, this
will allow you to move on gently and slowly
without the intense feelings of loneliness that
often accompany a breakup.

After all, if you can slowly wean yourself off
those romantic feelings rather than going "cold
turkey” and shutting down all contact with her,
isn't that a better option?

But the problem is that even though it often seems
like a perfect compromise, being friends usually
provides very little comfort and actually makes
the process of moving on longer and more difficult
than it needs to be.

AND… even more importantly… it will ruin your
chances of winning your ex back!
There are a few other huge problems with agreeing
to be friends with your ex if you want to win her
back:

1.) It won't give her a chance to develop feelings
of nostalgia and she won't miss you as much. One
of the key ingredients to repairing a relationship
is that your ex needs to miss you like crazy. How
do you make someone miss you? Simple: disappear
from their life suddenly and completely, shutting
down all lines of communication. By maintaining a
friendship with your ex, it's impossible to really
effectively disappear from their radar and make
her miss you.

2.) It gives complete control of the situation to
your ex. Another key to winning back your ex is to
make it clear that you are still equal with her
even though she's decided to break up with you.
You need to make it known that you're not a
pushover and that if your ex isn't interested in a
romantic relationship, then she's cut from your
life altogether.

3.) You serve as a "safety net” for your ex while
they look for someone new. Do you want to be your
ex's confidante while she tells you about her new
lovers? Do you want to be her backup plan in case
things don't work out with the new romance she's
pursuing? Of course not. You have to make it
absolutely clear to your ex that if she chooses to
break up with you, she's on his own and can't come
running back to you if she finds the single life a
bit less fun than she imagined it would be.
In reality, there really isn't any scenario where
being friends (at least for the first few months)
after a breakup is possible.

If you've already agreed to be "friends” with your
ex and got yourself stuck in the "friend zone,”
calm down…. you can still undo this mistake and
win her back (but only if you take action ASAP!).
The first step is to watch this complimentary
video by world-renowned breakup guru Brad
Browning: == > "Be 'friends' with your ex?”

In fact, even if you haven't yet agreed to be
friends with your ex, you should still take 5
minutes to watch that video…. it will teach you a
few little-known techniques to re-wire your ex's
feelings and make her want you back. Just click
this link:

==> "Why you can't be 'friends' with her” <==
Regards,
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